Why Pickup Artist Techniques Don’t Work – How to Fix the Man From The Ground Up

Why Pickup Artist Techniques Don’t Work – How to Fix the Man From The Ground Up

March 25, 2020 11 By Jose Scott


Uncle C back in the office and in this video
I’m going to be explaining to each and every single one of you specifically why most pickup
artists techniques don’t work. Okay, and by the end of this video, I’m going
to be telling you the three secrets that it takes to literally control your entire reality
when it comes to your masculinity, when it comes to your dating, when it comes to handling
your professional life, and really just being able to be that full stack man that every
single man out there wants to be. Because the problem with these techniques
is that if you’re looking at this one dimensional from a standpoint of life, you’re essentially
assuming that human interaction is just face value. There’s more to this. There’s more to this that most people don’t
understand. So if you stay with me until the end of this,
I’m going to be showing you specifically how you can actually
the very first reason why when most men want to start to propel their life forward Why
their specific tactics and techniques don’t work is because they don’t understand that
their internal state is specifically what yields the external result. What do I mean by this? Well, you see when you have a man who’s fundamentally
broken from the inside out, and he tries to apply tactics to a mental mindset that is
not ready to handle though, essentially what he’s doing is he’s putting a bandaid on a
broken leg. It’s just not going to happen. The whole house is fundamentally flawed. The foundation’s cracked, the the siding is
messed up, okay. What I’m saying is, is that the fundamentals
of this man is not ready to start to apply tactics into his life, his internal state
is corrupted, his internal state is ruined. And because of that, he can never yield the
external result that he wants. When he communicates when he looks people
in the eye, there’s some sort of depression or suppression in him and he can never actually
fully express his own desires. You will have a lot of guys When they start
to want to propel their life forward, they say, you know, I watch a lot of certain pill
colored channels. And and what happens is that as soon as I,
they say I know all the information, I know all the tactics as soon as it comes for that
time for me to make something happen, why is it that I can’t get out of my head? Why is it that I can’t get into the body? Well, it’s specifically because the internal
state is not fixed. And because of that demand is fundamentally
flawed from the get go. This is something that you have to fix if
you don’t come from a standpoint of joy. And from a standpoint of self fulfillment,
you’re never actually going to have that life that you want. And the problem is that your energy is going
to be constantly flawed because you do not feel enough. The second thing that you have to understand
is that most men’s internal state is fully polluted, fully polluted in every way, shape
and form if you say the word masculinity to a man, because if you look at what true attraction
is, masculinity is just the polarity of the feminine. It’s the opposite. Which means that everything that he is she
isn’t and everything that she is he isn’t. And the fact is that men don’t actually understand
how that works. What they tried to do is they try to appeal
more to the feminine to cover up the flaws of their masculine. Now, if you can start to understand that the
internal state is polluted, you can now start to fix the internal but how do you do this
and what is polluted? If you look at what a typical man is made
up of today, it starts from everything that goes into the body and that comes out through
the words. Okay, what typically goes into the body is
lots of alcohol, overindulgence and sugar, overindulgence in carbohydrates, there’s no
good positive mental stimulation. What there is, is there’s dirty websites,
they’re self fulfillment with, you know, masturbation or other things like that. And the problem is that his internal world
is polluted because nothing positive is going in it and when nothing positive goes into
it, what that is going to be signaling into that mindset. Day after day is that you are not ready to
interact with the companion you are not yet fit to be with a female. And that shows every single time you try to
apply the tactic. Okay? Because what you need to realize is men and
women are literally like peanut butter and jelly, they go together. And if you’re struggling with bringing that
site out of you, this goes further than just desire expression. What it is, is you need to actually fix the
man from the ground up. Because the only way to feel strong, dominant
and confident is to actually be strong, dominant and confident. Everything that the polar is of her is what
she’s looking for in a potential mate. Now this internal state, what this is doing
every single time he strokes it on the dirty website is he’s literally saying, hey, my
seed is worth the value of an artificial woman on a screen. My seat is worth the value of an artificial
woman on a cell phone. What are you saying every single time he needs
that shot of alcohol in order to have enough confidence to smile or to flirt He’s saying,
hey, as a direct human, just me, I’m not enough as is I need some sort of stimulant to take
me out of my own world, every single time he goes for another hit, okay, have some sort
of, you know, pot or any other sort of stimulant that he’s using to take away his anxieties. What he’s saying is that, because my internal
world is broken, instead of fixing the internal, what I’m going to do is I’m actually going
to just mask it, I’m going to put some sort of medication into the body to temporarily
take away the pain, when in reality, if you can actually fix the polluted state, what
happens is you flourish into a new type of man that you’ve never been one that radiates
the right type of energy and attraction without even trying. The last is that you’re truly not comfortable
with your own desires. Now, there’s two things that a man typically
needs in order to be comfortable with his desires. Number one is that he needs to be comfortable
and okay with himself as a human. And the second is he needs to be okay with
expressing his desires. These are two things that men have fundamental
flaws with. They’re not okay with themselves to begin
with, they think that in some way, shape or form, they’re fundamentally flawed. This could be through their looks, this could
be through their occupation. This could be that they’re not confident with
the way that they talk. But just as is they’re not okay with being
a human. And let me tell you something in 2020 He who
is most human is He who is going to have more success in life in their masculinity journey,
as well as with women. And the reason for that is because we’re turning
into something that we are not. We’re dependent on cell phones, we’re dependent
on these apps were dependent on all of these external things that were man made and creative. created, excuse me to take us out of this
reality of just being true and genuine and human. If you can learn to become okay with who you
are as a man, you’re now okay with expressing your desires and your sexuality. You need to start to get in the habit of saying
look, I am okay with being a sexual manner. I am okay with expressing my desire forward,
I am okay with going after what I want. Whether that is financially, you know, a lot
of men, they’re told to just sit down and shut up and pay attention. You know, don’t don’t talk about potential
success. Don’t talk about, you know, potential business
ideas don’t talk about how you want to have a better love life or a better dating life. Let’s just keep all that under the rug. And what happens is that builds up, and that
desire and that suppression, it just keeps getting stuffed down and down and down. The reason for it is because men today are
just simply not okay with themselves. When you start to fully become okay and independent
of the outcome. And you’re okay with who you are. What happens is that you’re now okay with
expressing these desires forward. You can now look somebody in the eye and be
completely congruent with who you are, because you know that you have became enough by letting
go. Now there’s three secrets. In order to fix all of these. There’s three secrets that most people are
not focused on. And there’s three secrets that virtually only
1% of men know how to do. Now you got to realize the difference between
the truth Additional approach of learning tactics to get women is those men fall into
the 99 percenters. And the men who are focused on fixing their
world and their internal state from the ground up now become a 1%. Man, if you want to be in this 1% man category,
what that means is that you’re becoming full stack. Okay, you’re taking control of the internal
state, you’re taking control of the body, you’re taking control of your mindset. And you’re now telling yourself that you are
in total control of every way, shape, and form have the exact obstacle that you’re going
to have to get around. Now there’s three ways to fix all of these. The first secret that I want to explain is
that men have to not focus on controlling the external world. Instead, what you have to focus on is controlling
your internal state and your internal reality. What that means is while most men will try
to play chess when they go out, while most men will try to play chess when they’re interacting
with a woman, what you have to do is you have to actually just control your energy in your
current state and vibe, through the Inside Out, okay, attraction cannot be negotiated. It’s expressed through the subconscious. What this means fellas is most men, even though
they’re in this 99% category, you know, their internal worlds broken, they don’t have good
success habits in their masculinity. They’re, they’re broken. And they try to apply these tactics. And what they’re trying to do is they’re trying
to control their external world. They’re trying to control the interaction
in front of them. They’re trying to control how that other person
reacts. They’re trying to actually physically do something
different. Instead, what they need to do is they need
to start to be okay with their internal world and their internal reality how you do this
is you do this by ingraining deep success habits. Which brings me to number two. Now you see, you need to fuel these success
habits day by day. Not only does this rewire your subconscious,
but you start to actually be okay with letting go of the outcome. You see most men, they’re so fixated on the
outcome, how can I play chess in order to get what I want when in reality if you’re
enough as is you already have what you need in the first place. When you feel these success habits. What does this look like? This looks like you stop drinking alcohol
completely. Because alcohol does not fuel anything you
want a woman, this does not go in order to get that you want to be better in business. This does not help you in any way, shape or
form to get that you want to have a better, more defined more ripped body that looks strong,
dominant and masculine. This does not do anything to help you do that. If anything, all it does is it lowers your
testosterone and it makes you more feminine. If you look at the certain food groups,
you say I do not need sugar. Why don’t you need sugar because guess what? sugar spikes insulin and insulin will start
to get you to hold fat. And what happens then is you look less dominant,
you look less masculine, you’re not as confident and it shows through your nutrition. And because of that you’re more estrogenic
and you’re weak. Okay, you tell yourself I do not need to Netflix
and chill. instead. What I need is I need to read a book book,
and I need to actually develop myself worth as a man. Now what this is doing is this is giving your
body this is giving your mind this is giving you some sort of self fulfillment that does
not necessarily rely on the outcome of interacting with a woman. And what this does is this raises this man’s
value proposition so that way when he actually sets foot in the world, he feels enough as
his, he starts to realize that there’s separation between him and the one between the 99% and
himself. And when this separation occurs, he realizes
that all of these things that were abandoned for him in the first place, all of these things
that were a crutch, essentially can become eliminated and now he can fully let go and
the outcome just comes to him. Okay, the energy he just is attracting the
right sort of people into his own reality and his own realm. The last to fix this ability to be comfortable
with your desires is I love the saying this too shall pass. If you’re in a tough spot right now, this
too shall pass without rain. We would not know sunshine. Without sadness, we would not know happiness. without success, we would not know devastation. If you’re in a spot right now, where you’re
not okay with yourself as a man, if you’re not okay with expressing your true desires,
you need to know that this will pass and it will pass because they’re stages. And there’s graduation points within life. Now success has delay timers. Okay, oftentimes, you don’t actually get to
see the fruits of your labor for months or even years down the road. This is especially true in business. And this is especially true with fixing your
own head and your own internal state. Because I’m going to tell you something, it
does not matter how many pickup videos you watch, it does not matter how many pickup
techniques you tried to apply. If you’re not what represents masculinity. You are not what she is hardwired to want. The same way you want a soft, sweet, feminine
woman, she’s desiring her opposite and it’s very, very tough to demonstrate that when
you’re internal world is polluted. It’s estrogenic and it’s corrupted. This is why pickup artists techniques typically
do not work. And this is why men who follow a true masculinity
journey separate themselves from the 99% of men can completely let go of the outcome. And now the outcome just comes to them. So fellas, as mentioned earlier, if you think
myself and you would be a potentially good fit to work together so I can help you actually
reach this destination point. What I want you to do is I want you to go
down and I want you to book a call with me. Okay, and I want you to fill out an application
if it looks like we’re a good fit, we will show you the next steps to proceed and to
move forward. But I really want to make this clear, I only
want to work with people that are committed and qualified and people that actually are
interested in taking that next step in working with a coach so if that’s you that call link
is for you, if you’re not yet ready in that stage in your life, whether that be financially
whether that be mentally Okay, let’s hold off on that. But a few spots have opened up if you liked
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